90 Day FiancéAnnie SuwanDavid ToborowskyParenting Debate
‘Something Is Not Right’: Critics Slam Annie Suwan’s Wine-and-Baby Moment
90 Day Fiancé’s new mom faces a backlash over one sip of wine while holding her infant, and David Toborowsky is firing back.
Source material: monstersandcritics.com
A Breeze, a Bottle, and a Firestorm
David Toborowsky’s Instagram Reel showed his wife Annie Suwan rocking their one-month-old daughter Minthira to sleep as a fan blew over them. In the clip, Annie takes a small sip of wine, and David’s caption read, “When it’s late and the baby just wants to be held sad mommy needs a little wine lol lol 😂😂😍😍 Annie is so cute.” The video quickly split followers. Plenty of fans argued that a tired mom deserved a taste of wine, but a vocal group of critics called the move dangerous. One disparager wrote, “No mother should be holding her infant and drinking wine at the same time,” adding that alcohol impairs judgment, “including the ability to hold an infant securely.” Another commenter directly warned, “You can’t drink alcohol while breastfeeding lady.” The criticism was pointed enough that David stepped in to clarify the situation.
David’s Defense: One Sip, No Nursing
David replied to the breastfeeding accusation by noting that Annie was not currently nursing Minthira. To a third critic who suggested she wait until the baby was in a crib or in someone else’s arms, David countered that Annie had taken only one sip of wine. He also drew a comparison: “Other moms have held their babies while holding hot coffee or tea.” The exchange continued, with @cynthiaedwards 31 writing, “Something is not right. You need to talk with your wife.” David’s tone remained light, but the back-and-forth underlined how quickly a seemingly innocent post can turn into a public parenting trial. The commenters were not just policing alcohol; they were questioning Annie’s judgment as a caregiver, even though the clip showed her casually soothing her daughter.
A New Family Split by an Ocean
The controversy comes at a stressful time for the couple. Annie is in Thailand caring for baby Minthira while David is back in the US for work. During his time stateside, David also underwent a cosmetic procedure he called the “Time Machine Procedure,” which included microneedling, platelet-rich fibrin matrix (PRFM) injections under his eyes, a “Cat Scratch” procedure on his upper and lower eyelids, and lip filler injections. The procedure drew its own backlash, with one commenter describing his post-op look as “a tad bit feminine though.” David replied simply, “Not to me.” Meanwhile, fans have been gushing over Minthira, noting how much the baby resembles her father. The infant is just a month old, and the family is navigating early parenthood across continents.
Critics Cite Safety Risks of Alcohol
Critics raised specific safety concerns about alcohol and infant care. One argued that even a sip could impair a mother's judgment, affecting her ability to hold her baby securely. Another insisted that drinking and breastfeeding are incompatible, while a third suggested waiting until the baby was in a crib or with someone else before indulging. Another commenter simply wrote, "Something is not right." These concerns highlight the intense judgment mothers face, even for seemingly minor choices.
